If you want to impress a girl, you should probably steer clear of sending her pictures of your dick. That’s just not what girls want.
Men think dick pics are a great way to show their interest in a woman, but most women say they don’t appreciate receiving unsolicited pictures of their partners’ penis.
1. They’re sexy
While consensually sharing nude pictures and dick pics between consenting adults can be sexy, it’s important to make sure the photos are taken in the right context. For example, dick pics should be sent only after the recipient has expressed interest in your penis and you have their consent. Also, it’s a good idea to save them for evenings or weekends when you’re more likely to have their attention.
Despite the many reasons why people send dick pics, it’s important to remember that not all women find these kinds of images to be sexy or attractive. In fact, most women feel disgusted or angry when they receive a dick pic that they didn’t ask for.
This digital sexual exhibitionism is strange, and we’re still trying to figure out why some men think it’s okay to send unsolicited photos of their penises to women. They probably hope that the pictures will excite the woman or that she’ll find them sexy, but this is rarely the case.
One study found that only 8% of heterosexual women and 13% of bisexual women reported feeling excited when they received dick pics. Even more disturbing, the researchers who conducted the study found that women of all sexual identities reacted negatively to unsolicited dick pics. The research indicates that men who send dick pics may actually be exhibiting traits like narcissism, erotophobia-erotophilia, and benevolent sexism.
2. They’re funny
In some cases, a guy may have an especially good penis and want to show it off. If that’s the case, it’s important to add a little bit of style to the photo and not just send a close-up shot. A creative lighting technique, for example, can make the dick pic more attractive and sexy. Also, try to include a text or caption that hints at the sexiness of the picture. For instance, if the picture is a response to something you and your partner have just discussed or is a reminder of a sexy memory, it’s likely to be more effective in attracting her than simply showing off your penis.
However, dick pics can be a turn-off when they’re sent unsolicited. As the study in the Journal of Sex Research suggests, men who send dick photos without being asked to do so hope that their sexually explicit photo will prompt a woman to respond with nudes or other sexy sexting messages.
When a girl receives a dick pic that was not requested, she’s likely to think that the guy is creepy or is trying to harass her. That’s because the term “unsolicited” suggests that the dick pic is being sent to a girl who has not consented to it. Moreover, the assumption that dick pics are sexy is a reflection of a man’s lack of understanding of what turns girls on.
3. They’re embarrassing
In the age of sexting, the digital nude photo is more popular than ever. Some people send them out of curiosity, while others do so as a way to get attention from the person they’re texting. It’s important to remember, however, that sending dick pics can be embarrassing for the receiver. So it’s important to ask for consent before sending a dick pic. And if you do decide to send one, it’s best to wait until the person is alone and in a good mood.
For example, it’s probably not a good idea to send a dick pic while your friend is at work or when you’re on the phone with her parents. Also, it’s better to send a dick pic when the person is wearing clothing and not covered in spit or vomit.
Another thing to keep in mind when sending a dick pic is that it’s important to use tasteful backgrounds. You don’t want to put your dick in the middle of a messy bedroom, for example. Instead, try using a picture of a scenic spot or a cute animal to add context to the photo.
Overall, it’s important to note that dick pics are rarely an instant turn-on for women. In fact, many women feel disgusted or turned-off by them. So while it may seem like a good idea to send a sexy dick pick to your crush, think twice before you do so.
4. They’re embarrassing for the guy
Regardless of their sexual preferences, most girls don’t like receiving dick pics. They feel embarrassing, even violated when they get them. Almost all women agree that it’s wrong to send a man a photo of his penis without asking for one in return. It’s a form of unwanted, unethical flashing that can be a sexual trigger for women who have survived sexual abuse.
When a guy sends a dick pic to a girl, it’s usually pretty clear that he’s trying to get some attention and love from her. But many of them aren’t able to stop themselves from sending it even if they think it’s inappropriate.
In a study on the phenomenon, researchers found that men who send unsolicited dick photos tend to exhibit higher levels of narcissism and two subsets of sexism: hostile sexism (overt prejudices against women) and benevolent sexism (the belief that women should be protected by men). This could explain why some guys can’t resist sending dick pics to girls they don’t know or like.
A few months ago, journalist Moya Sarner conducted a fascinating experiment on Reddit. She asked men directly why they sent dick pics, and the responses were varied. Some men said they did it for fun, while others cited reasons such as hoping to receive nudes in return or a potential romantic relationship.